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जिसके द्वारा दर्ज किया गया Tannu1994

Aunty ji namaste,
Mei ek ladki se pichle 14 months se serious relationship me tha humne pichle month agni k 7 phere liye..uski maang me sindoor bhara or shadi ki but ye kaam sirf hum dono ne kiya tha koi pandit nhi tha lekin iska video banaya or photo bhi shot kiya.. But ab wo ladki apni family k pressure me kahi or shadi kr rahi hai.. Please mujhe batayiye k humne jo shadi ki kya wo legal hai..kya mei koi legal action le sakta hu.. Please suggest me.. Hum log hindu hain

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Tannu1994 puttar,
Jo tum dono ne kiya, woh legal nahi hai. Koi bhi shaadi tabhi legal hoti hai jab woh registered hoti hai. Aap dono ne shaadi ki - lekin isko register nahi karwaya. Chahe video hai - lekin fir bhi legally yeh mayne nahi rakhega. Marriage ka court main registered hona bahut zaroori hai.
Ek aur baat - Agar woh ladki ab tumse marriage nahi karwana chahti to legally tum uske saath kuch nahi kar sakte. Kissi ko force nahi kia ja sakta hai shaadi ke liye. Haan usne jo kiya - woh shayad tumhe bura laga - par ho sakta hai ki uski bhi koi wajah/majboori rahi hogi?
Aur maan lo - tum uspe legal action ya koi aur action le bhi lo - aur apna gussa utar bhi lo - fir kya? Kya woh fir bhi apne mann se tumhare saath rehna chahegi? Nahi na?
To beta tum jitni jaldi yeh accept karoge ki woh ab tumhare saath nahi rehna chahti - uta achha hoga. I know muskhil hai. Bura lag raha hoga. Tum usse abhi bhi attached hoge. Par jiss insaan ne tumko dhokha de he diya - usko uske haal pe rehne do na. Aur aage move on karo. Zindagi bahut khoobsurat hai - yeh legal action, badla lena, usne aisa kyu kiya etc soch ke kyu iss zindagi ko udaas banana beta. Usko bhi jeene do aur khud bhi jiyo, Ho sakta hai tumhari life main kuch achha hona ho? Ho sakta hai tumhari life main koi aur partner likha ho - usse bhi achha. Agar tumhare mann main uske liye zara sa bhi pyar baaki hai to usko bhi khush rehne do! Kissi ko maaf karne mein he badhapan hai - all. the best beta! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/breaking-up...

Auntyji