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जिसके द्वारा दर्ज किया गया Papuni555

Hi Mam , mera ek friend hai priti . Woh graduation complete karne ke baad woh abhi ek private school main bachhon ko padhati hai aur apni free time main khud ki dream job panee ke liye khudd padhh rahi hai.

Uski samasya yeh hai ki , uske jiban main ek ladka aya hai Aman. Halanki Aman uski dusrii pyar hai par priti usee bahot pyar karti hai. Lekin aman priti se shadi nahi karna chahta.
Uske baad priti ne aman se baat karna band kardiya..aur block kardiya. Lekin priti ki samasya yeh hai ki..Aman ne kabhi kabhi usee message karta hai unknown number se , aur pehle jaisa bahut care aur pyar se baat karke close ho jata hai. Lekin priti chahti hai ki.. agar aman saadi nahi karna chata hai..tohh priti jab tak hai.. pritiki kee saath rahe..nahi tohh zindegi see puri tarah see chali jayee.

Aise 3,4 din aur 10 , 12 din antaral main message karke priti se close hone se priti ko takleef hoti hai..aure apni dream job see bhi door ho ja rahi hai.aur padhai main concentrate nahi kar paa rahi hai. Toh preeti aub kya decision lee jo uske liyee ..aur uski dream job ke liye achha hoga ? Please mam suggestion dijiyega jaroor... Thank you

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Papuni555 puttar,
Main samajh sakti hun preeti ko bahut stress ho raha hoga. Meri salah to yeh rahegi ki agar woh ladka clear hai ki usko shaadi nahi karni - to preeti ko bhi clear hona chaiye na apne career aur apni life ko lekar. Usko uss ladke pe time waste nahi karna chaiye aur apne dil ko mazboot rakhna chaiye. Preeti bhi clear hai ki woh apni padhai pe focus nahi kharab karna chahti - isliye priti ko bahut soch samaj ke uss ladke se last time baat karni chaiye ki iss tarah kissi bhi unknown numbers se call karke woh usko disturb nahi kar sakta. Jaise he Preeti ko lagta hai ki woh unknown number se call kar raha hai - usko turant phone kaat dena chaiye - Problem tab aati hai jab Preeti baat karne lag jaati hai - uski sunne lag jaati hai - uski pyar bhari baton main aa jaati hai.
Agar Preeti apne mann ko pakka bana le - yeh soch le ki Aman jaise bahut se ladke uski zindagi main baad main bhi aa jayenge - yeh sab karne ke liye uske paas poori zindagi hai - Lekin - Usko apna career banana hai - aur dream job paani hai - to bas sirf YAHI time hai - Yeh important time usko kissi aise person pe nahi waste karna chaiye jo iss baat se clear hai ki usko usse sirf temporarily rishta banana hai - hamesha ke liye nahi. I hope tum Preeti ko yeh baat samjha pao - har cheez ka ek time hota hai - abhi time career ka hai - focus ka - next time blck karne ke baad phone aaye to baat na kare - kuch bhi nahi - kuch bhi nahi matlab - hello ke baad sirf phone black karna hai - kaatna hai - kaise ho bhi nahi poochna - Ladke ko message mil jayega! Agar Preeti ne ek bhi baat aur kar li to yeh silsila kabhi kahatam nahi hoga - lekin preeti ko stress he milega aur jo focus kharab hoga - woh alag! https://lovematters.in/en

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